This weekend has been the breaking point between hubby & I. (Not married, just engaged, well I guess not even that now!)
On Fri. nite we were at a friends house. Hubby became very intoxicated and went to bed long after me. The next morning I woke him @ 9 and told him we had to get going home. Over an hour's drive home because I had promised to take my girls 15 & 12 school shopping. (Our schools start here tomorrow). Hubby was hung over and said that there was no reason for them to get school clothes, I just let them act like princesses and give them whatever they want. (I haven't rec'd cs in over 10 yrs., and have always, always, always struggled financially since my ex and I split. It is not easy raising 3 kids (son now lives on own) on your own with no support. My kids get the basics never anything extra because it is just not possible. My kids appreciate what they get and take care of it, his kids get whatever they want and are very disrespectful with their things, etc. Where this came from I am unsure because he is the 1st to admit that my kids are better behaved than his, have better marks than his, basically no serious worries with them, they hold jobs and show responsibility.
for the new school year? He has been attending the same school for the last two years, and when I signed him up for our middle school two years ago, he was at that time current on his immunizations.
I've been MIA again ... nothing's wrong just very busy with new real estate business (new lisitng, new clients, website, MySpace, training, etc.), and life in general (Jacob, camping, soccer, etc.). I've barely had time to get my work done, let alone sit down and "have fun" on the Internet. (This might be long.)
Wow, this is nice!!! I have the house to myself, and DH has the kiddos. ALL 3 OF THEM!!! We were able to get SS for a 3 day weekend. It's been about 5 months since we have seen him so we were soooo excited to have him, if only for a short while.
I promised myself I wouldn't get involved but DH doesn't understand the concept of a sale so I went along. I was pretty pissed that BM did not bother buying one thing for her children for school. She is a Disney Mom only doing the themepark theme during her visitations. I think the children are getting older and understanding that they can't wear Mickey Mouse ears to school and they are getting of the age where they would prefer clothes and things.
I haven't been posting here in a long time. Yet it feels like coming home after a long journey to be here today. Things have gotten better Between BF and BM to some extent. Yet we are still dealing with many issues with BM. The reason for my post today is that I have a situation in which I'm not sure what steps to take or if there is anything we can do. Quick history. I'm SM to to SS's and also have three children of my own. Both BF and I share custody of our children with ex-spouse's
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Well for those of you who know my story, you will be happy to know SS came for his first visit yesterday, all went very well. There were the same old problems with SS getting on the video games and then having to be told 3 times before he got off. But you know the surprising thing? I didn't care!! Thanks to all the advice I have had here to detach myself from the situation. I let DH get frustrated and I just had a nice day!!
My BF and I have lived together for four years, we are both content with not being married. I have a fear that if we are married that somehow his ex will find someway to use that against him, a little paranoid I know.
This week is finally, gratefully, over. And, so is my marriage.
Even tonight he made sure to tell me that I've always made too big of a deal about the SD's behavior. He also told me he would never think she was as "bad" as I thought she was.
Ya'll going to love this I promise if it doesn't make you snicker theres no hope for you- take a long vacation.
A friend of mine gave me the web site as-rejection hotline- You will not believe how histerical with laughter I have been several times(I don't often lose all composure but this is great) you have to try it they have a big list of numbers for every occassion- Yes Cruella I am sure they have one that would be hilarious to forward those calls to on your days off- too bad I hadn't thought of it Friday! Check it out let me know what you think???????????
Here is a new development... I think bm has gone off her rocker again. Ok, Dh pays her cs every month, as is written in the divorce agreement (I think). Bm is saying that since she gets her payment monthly instead of weekly , that he owes her more because she's getting ripped off since there are 4 extra weeks in the year.
My bio daughter's dad is rarely in the picture so she really doesn't have a father figure around to be there for her. So my fiancee has kinda taken on that roll...both kids are in therapy for different reasons..my daughter for her ADHD and learning boundries, etc.
After that last soccer game when Bm told ss to stay by her and not go by Dawn I have decided to stop doing any extras for Bm. Just little things. You know like reminding her of things that she was already told about, etc. Nothing that will affect ss negatively. I will still send notes from school(that aren't on the website) that she needs to know about if something is happening on her days, but everything else she can find out on the school web site. This year not only does the school have a website but ss's class has one and band has one. All info. including grades can be found if you look. I'm not spoon feeding her anymore as I have done in the past.
I really dont want to deal with BM today calling at the house. The kids are gone shopping for clothes. I am sitting here thinking really evil thoughts. Like when she is calling from her house to ours to forward only her calls to herself!!! Talk about annoying and hard to prove!!! I won't really do it.
My husband is a child. Lately he has been playing banjo with my last nerve. He wants constant attention and it is driving me freaking crazy. I am so damn tired from lack of sleep. He is even hyper in his sleep!!!!! Last night I told him I had a bad migrane and just needed some sleep.